{"id":7623,"date":"2023-08-31T15:23:41","date_gmt":"2023-08-31T15:23:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/?p=7623"},"modified":"2023-08-31T15:23:44","modified_gmt":"2023-08-31T15:23:44","slug":"ces-deux-types-deducation-poussent-les-enfants-a-devenir-des-adultes-narcissiques","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2023\/08\/31\/ces-deux-types-deducation-poussent-les-enfants-a-devenir-des-adultes-narcissiques\/","title":{"rendered":"Ces deux types d\u2019\u00e9ducation poussent les enfants \u00e0 devenir des adultes narcissiques"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">S\u2019il para\u00eet difficile de totalement fa\u00e7onner la personnalit\u00e9 d\u2019un enfant, il est possible de l\u2019influencer, notamment lorsqu\u2019il est question de narcissisme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">La g\u00e9n\u00e9rosit\u00e9,\u00a0<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologies.com\/famille\/Cette-experience-surprenante-pourrait-favoriser-laltruisme-des-enfants\" target=\"_blank\">l\u2019altruisme<\/a>, la bienveillance, la gentillesse, l\u2019honn\u00eatet\u00e9\u2026 Voil\u00e0 des qualit\u00e9s que l\u2019on souhaiterait voir se d\u00e9velopper chez son enfant. \u00c0 l\u2019inverse, s\u2019il \u00e9tait possible d\u2019emp\u00eacher le d\u00e9veloppement de\u00a0<strong>certains traits de personnalit\u00e9 chez leurs enfants<\/strong>, il y a fort \u00e0 parier que de nombreux parents tenteraient d\u2019y parvenir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Qu\u2019en est-il\u00a0du <a href=\"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2021\/10\/27\/la-personnalite-narcissique\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"5651\">narcissisme\u00a0<\/a>? La fa\u00e7on dont un parent va traiter son enfant ou la mani\u00e8re avec laquelle il va lui-m\u00eame se percevoir peut directement<strong>\u00a0influencer sa mani\u00e8re de se comporter avec les autres plus tard<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">L\u2019enfant n\u00e9glig\u00e9 \u00e9motionnellement&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">\u00ab\u00a0Un enfant qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 rejet\u00e9, surprot\u00e9g\u00e9, s\u00e9v\u00e8rement critiqu\u00e9 et\/ou maltrait\u00e9 peut d\u00e9velopper un moi grandiose, qui est un moyen de compenser de forts sentiments d\u2019inf\u00e9riorit\u00e9, avance Geraldine K. Piorkowski, psychologue clinicienne, pour\u00a0<em>Psychology Today<\/em>. En niant ses sentiments d\u2019inf\u00e9riorit\u00e9, l\u2019enfant se sent puissant, particuli\u00e8rement talentueux et\/ou tr\u00e8s beau.\u00a0\u00bb <\/p><div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Ces enfants d\u00e9velopperont en parall\u00e8le\u00a0<strong>un besoin d\u2019\u00eatre admir\u00e9s et valid\u00e9s par les autres<\/strong>. Les enfants reproduisent g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement ce qu\u2019ils voient au quotidien, rappelle la psychologue Ramani Durvasula pour\u00a0<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2023\/08\/26\/psychologist-these-2-parenting-styles-raise-narcissistic-adults.html\" target=\"_blank\"><em>CNBC<\/em><\/a>. Si leurs mod\u00e8les ne reconnaissent pas leurs \u00e9motions et les n\u00e9gligent, ils grandiront en pensant qu\u2019il n\u2019est pas utile de se pr\u00e9occuper des sentiments des autres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">L\u2019enfant trop choy\u00e9&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Vraisemblablement, l\u2019exact oppos\u00e9 n\u2019est pas non plus l\u2019approche \u00e0 adopter pour \u00e9viter le d\u00e9veloppement du narcissisme chez l\u2019enfant. Les enfants trop g\u00e2t\u00e9s, dont les parents c\u00e8dent \u00e0 toutes les demandes, et r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement l\u2019objet de phrases telles que \u00ab\u00a0tu es le plus beau du monde\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0tu es la plus intelligente\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0tu es sp\u00e9cial\u00a0\u00bb ou encore \u00ab\u00a0tu m\u00e9rites le monde\u00a0\u00bb, risquent de d\u00e9velopper\u00a0<strong><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologies.com\/moi\/Techniques-de-Gaslighting-ruinent-lestime-de-soi\" target=\"_blank\">un sentiment d\u2019estime de soi<\/a>\u00a0exag\u00e9r\u00e9<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">\u00ab\u00a0Dans les familles qui favorisent le narcissisme, les parents ne posent pas assez de limites et cherchent g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement des excuses au comportement malsain de leur enfant, note Geraldine K. Piorkowski. En outre, ces parents consacrent peu de temps \u00e0 enseigner l\u2019empathie \u00e0 leurs enfants.\u00a0\u00bb <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Apprendre aux enfants \u00e0\u00a0<strong>reconna\u00eetre les \u00e9motions des autres et les leurs<\/strong>, y compris les n\u00e9gatives, les aident \u00e0 d\u00e9velopper \u00ab\u00a0leurs propres ressources psychologiques\u00a0\u00bb. C\u2019est un moyen d\u2019\u00e9viter le d\u00e9veloppement du narcissisme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>References<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Psychologie,com<\/em><\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S\u2019il para\u00eet difficile de totalement fa\u00e7onner la personnalit\u00e9 d\u2019un enfant, il est possible de l\u2019influencer, notamment lorsqu\u2019il est question de narcissisme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":122,"featured_media":7624,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[5,607],"tags":[650,107,682],"class_list":["post-7623","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-developpement","category-education","tag-magazine-africain-de-psychologie","tag-monpsychomag","tag-questions"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/monpsychomag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/1d914aff78-e1693493621523.jpg?fit=800%2C534&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7623","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/122"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7623"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7623\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7625,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7623\/revisions\/7625"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7624"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7623"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7623"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7623"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}