{"id":7617,"date":"2023-08-30T08:48:12","date_gmt":"2023-08-30T08:48:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/?p=7617"},"modified":"2023-08-30T08:48:14","modified_gmt":"2023-08-30T08:48:14","slug":"voici-ce-qui-rend-plus-heureux-les-couples-dapres-une-etude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2023\/08\/30\/voici-ce-qui-rend-plus-heureux-les-couples-dapres-une-etude\/","title":{"rendered":"Voici ce qui rend plus heureux les couples d\u2019apr\u00e8s une \u00e9tude"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Pour s\u2019\u00e9panouir dans son couple et \u00eatre heureux avec son partenaire, une \u00e9tude invite \u00e0 repenser ce type de relation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Les&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologies.com\/Couple\/Vie-de-couple\/Amour\/Temoignages\/Je-souffre-de-notre-relation-a-distance\">relations \u00e0 distance<\/a>&nbsp;ont longtemps \u00e9t\u00e9 consid\u00e9r\u00e9es comme un d\u00e9fi de taille pour les couples, mais une&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/how-to-have-a-thriving-long-distance-relationship-2015-1?utm_content=buffera6cb2&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer\">\u00e9tude<\/a>&nbsp;men\u00e9e en 2015 sugg\u00e8re qu\u2019elles pourraient bien \u00eatre une source de bonheur et d\u2019\u00e9panouissement. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Cette recherche a remis en question l\u2019id\u00e9e selon laquelle la proximit\u00e9 g\u00e9ographique est un crit\u00e8re d\u00e9terminant pour qu\u2019une relation fonctionne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">En effet, les r\u00e9sultats ont r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 que les relations \u00e0 distance peuvent \u00eatre tout aussi satisfaisantes, voire plus, que celles o\u00f9 les partenaires vivent \u00e0 proximit\u00e9 les uns des autres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Les relations \u00e0 distance rendraient plus heureux<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">La directrice de l\u2019\u00e9tude, Emma Dargie, doctorante en psychologie clinique \u00e0 l\u2019Universit\u00e9 Queen\u2019s, a interrog\u00e9 474 femmes et 243 hommes en relation \u00e0 distance, ainsi que 314 femmes et 111 hommes en relation qui \u00e9taient proches, sur l\u2019intimit\u00e9, l\u2019engagement, la&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologies.com\/Actualites\/Societe\/Couple-cinq-conseils-pour-rebooster-la-communication\">communication<\/a>&nbsp;et la satisfaction physique. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Les r\u00e9sultats ont \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9tonnants : il n\u2019y avait aucune diff\u00e9rence significative dans la qualit\u00e9 des relations entre les deux groupes, mais les couples en relation \u00e0 distance ont pr\u00e9sent\u00e9 les niveaux de satisfaction, d\u2019intimit\u00e9 et de communication les plus \u00e9lev\u00e9s. <\/p><div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Les conclusions de ce travail sugg\u00e8rent que la cl\u00e9 du succ\u00e8s dans les relations \u00e0 distance r\u00e9side dans la communication.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">\u00ab D\u00e9finissez d\u00e8s le d\u00e9but les besoins de chaque partenaire, entra\u00eenez-vous \u00e0 travailler pour r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 ces besoins et donnez votre avis sur les besoins qui ne sont toujours pas satisfaits. Ceux qui savent clairement quand ils se retrouveront dans la m\u00eame ville que leur partenaire semblent mieux g\u00e9rer la distance. \u00bb, explique Emma Dargie.<\/p>\n<cite><strong>Psychologie<\/strong><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Avec la distance, on aligne ses attentes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Selon Emma Dargie, ces r\u00e9sultats sugg\u00e8rent que ce n\u2019est pas tant la distance physique en elle-m\u00eame qui influe sur la satisfaction relationnelle, mais plut\u00f4t la dissonance entre les attentes et la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de la situation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">En d\u2019autres termes, les couples qui r\u00e9ussissent dans les relations \u00e0 distance sont ceux qui parviennent \u00e0 aligner leurs attentes avec la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de la distance g\u00e9ographique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">\u00ab Selon nos recherches, ce n\u2019est pas n\u00e9cessairement la distance qui vous s\u00e9pare ni le fait de ne pas voir souvent votre partenaire. Il s\u2019agit davantage de l\u2019\u00e9cart entre vos attentes en mati\u00e8re de relations et la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de votre situation actuelle. \u00bb<\/p>\n<cite><strong>Psychologie<\/strong><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Reference<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologies.com\/couple\/vie-de-couple\/type-relation-plus-heureux-couples?utm_campaign=NL_PSYCHO_28082023&amp;utm_content=28082023&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=EMAIL&amp;rwid=D5D4726CF895AFB8BA76E7BBB97E7FA59E5BB33C6DBA4A5B0AC3815709A7D905\">Ce type de relation rendrait plus heureux les couples (psychologies.com)<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pour s\u2019\u00e9panouir dans son couple et \u00eatre heureux avec son partenaire, une \u00e9tude invite \u00e0 repenser ce type de relation.<\/p>\n<p>Les\u00a0relations \u00e0 distance\u00a0ont longtemps \u00e9t\u00e9 consid\u00e9r\u00e9es comme un d\u00e9fi de taille pour les couples, mais une\u00a0\u00e9tude\u00a0men\u00e9e en 2015 sugg\u00e8re qu\u2019elles pourraient bien \u00eatre une source de bonheur et d\u2019\u00e9panouissement.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":122,"featured_media":7618,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[402,29],"tags":[83,650,107,207],"class_list":["post-7617","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-famille","category-vie-sentimentale","tag-amour","tag-magazine-africain-de-psychologie","tag-monpsychomag","tag-psychologie"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/monpsychomag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG-20230829-WA0009.jpg?fit=1000%2C667&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7617","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/122"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7617"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7617\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7620,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7617\/revisions\/7620"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7618"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7617"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7617"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7617"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}