{"id":6841,"date":"2022-08-02T09:36:02","date_gmt":"2022-08-02T09:36:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/?p=6841"},"modified":"2022-08-02T09:36:03","modified_gmt":"2022-08-02T09:36:03","slug":"comment-recevoir-la-critique","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2022\/08\/02\/comment-recevoir-la-critique\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment recevoir la critique"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\"><strong><em>On la redoute, on a tort. Une critique aide l\u2019autre \u00e0 progresser. A condition d\u2019\u00eatre bien formul\u00e9e\u2026 et bien comprise. Quelques conseils pour recevoir la critique.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. <strong>Ecouter jusqu\u2019au bout<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Pour bien recevoir une critique, il faut commencer par l\u2019\u00e9couter\u2026 jusqu\u2019au bout. On ne coupe pas la parole pour se d\u00e9fendre (\u00ab Marie t\u2019a dit que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas l\u00e0 pour recevoir son client ? C\u2019est faux, j\u2019\u00e9tais au t\u00e9l\u00e9phone dans le bureau d\u2019\u00e0 c\u00f4t\u00e9. \u00bb) ou pour se justifier (\u00ab Si j\u2019ai rat\u00e9 le rendez-vous de mardi, c\u2019est parce que j\u2019ai d\u00fb accompagner moi-m\u00eame mon fils \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole : la baby-sitter \u00e9tait malade\u2026 \u00bb).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. <strong>Questionner l\u2019autre<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Une fois la critique formul\u00e9e, on questionne son interlocuteur pour lui faire pr\u00e9ciser sa pens\u00e9e : \u00ab Mes retards emp\u00eachent le reste de l\u2019\u00e9quipe de travailler ? Que veux-tu dire exactement ? \u00bb Objectif : pousser l\u2019auteur de la critique dans ses retranchements et lui faire dire exactement ce qu\u2019il pense et ce qu\u2019il ressent.<\/p><div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. <strong>Reformuler la critique<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Pour \u00eatre certain d\u2019\u00eatre sur la m\u00eame longueur d\u2019ondes et de pouvoir continuer \u00e0 discuter, on reformule ce que l\u2019on vient d\u2019entendre : \u00ab Si je t\u2019ai bien compris, tu trouves que je suis trop souvent en retard aux r\u00e9unions, que cela perturbe le reste de l\u2019\u00e9quipe et que, d\u00e9sormais, tu souhaites me voir arriver \u00e0 l\u2019heure. \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. <strong>Se positionner<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Une fois que l\u2019on a tous les \u00e9l\u00e9ments en main, que l\u2019on est s\u00fbr d\u2019avoir bien compris ce que l\u2019autre pense et ressent, on peut lui r\u00e9pondre et prendre position. \u00ab Je ne pensais pas que je pouvais entraver \u00e0 ce point le travail des autres. J\u2019en prends note et je vais essayer d\u2019arriver \u00e0 l\u2019heure aux r\u00e9unions. \u00bb Ou : \u00ab Les r\u00e9unions commencent trop t\u00f4t. Je pense, comme toi, qu\u2019il faudrait les d\u00e9caler d\u2019une demi-heure. Comme \u00e7a, je pourrais prendre le train de 7 h 32 et \u00eatre au bureau \u00e0 9 heures. \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Ref\u00e9r\u00e9nces<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologies.com\/Moi\/Moi-et-les-autres\/Relationnel\/Articles-et-Dossiers\/5-conseils-pour-bien-critiquer-et-etre-entendu?utm_campaign=NL_PSYCHOLOGIES_01082022&amp;utm_content=01082022&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=EMAIL\"><em><strong>Recevoir la critique<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/li><\/ol>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On la redoute, on a tort. 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