{"id":5776,"date":"2021-11-11T13:58:33","date_gmt":"2021-11-11T13:58:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/?p=5776"},"modified":"2021-11-11T14:04:34","modified_gmt":"2021-11-11T14:04:34","slug":"jalousie-maternelle-et-rivalite-feminine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/11\/jalousie-maternelle-et-rivalite-feminine\/","title":{"rendered":"Jalousie maternelle et rivalit\u00e9 f\u00e9minine"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Notre malaise culturel face \u00e0 la<strong>\u00a0jalousie d\u2019une <a href=\"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2021\/10\/12\/relation-mere-enfant-en-institution-et-developpement-psychologique\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"5385\">m\u00e8re<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0pourrait bien \u00eatre aliment\u00e9 par un courant : combien nous sommes inquiets face \u00e0 la\u00a0<strong>rivalit\u00e9 f\u00e9minine<\/strong>\u00a0en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">C&rsquo;est exactement ce qui a surpris<em>&nbsp;Susan<\/em>&nbsp;Shapiro Barash lorsqu&rsquo;elle a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 enqu\u00eater et \u00e0 interviewer des femmes pour son livre&nbsp;<em>Tripping the Prom Queen<\/em>. Qu&rsquo;a-t-elle d\u00e9couvert ? Qu&rsquo;il y en a peu parmi nous qui peuvent r\u00e9sister \u00e0 jalouser la reine du bal qui caracole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Ce n&rsquo;est pas non plus tout \u00e0 fait nouveau ; apr\u00e8s tout, la mythologie grecque attribuait le d\u00e9but de la guerre de Troie \u00e0 un concours de beaut\u00e9 parmi les d\u00e9esses, avec un malheureux mortel faisant son choix. Pourtant, mis \u00e0 part les mythes, nous aimons nous consid\u00e9rer comme accueillants et gentils, pas intrigants et jaloux. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Et, si nous ne le sommes pas, nous n\u2019allons certainement pas en parler publiquement \u00e0 moins que nous ne soyons pay\u00e9s beaucoup d\u2019argent pour le faire dans une \u00e9mission.<\/p><div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Le code du silence et du secret rend<strong>&nbsp;la jalousie d\u2019une m\u00e8re<\/strong>&nbsp;d\u2019autant plus toxique qu\u2019il lui est impossible d\u2019admettre ses sentiments \u00e0 tant de niveaux. Pour cette raison, sa&nbsp;<strong>jalousie pour sa fille<\/strong>&nbsp;ne sera jamais exprim\u00e9e directement mais toujours de mani\u00e8re alambiqu\u00e9e et indirecte, ce qui la rend d&rsquo;autant plus toxique et difficile \u00e0 g\u00e9rer pour une fille.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La <a href=\"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2021\/10\/22\/etes-vous-jaloux-faites-le-test-pour-le-savoir\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"5568\">jalousie<\/a> et la col\u00e8re sont tr\u00e8s personnelles dans un sens tr\u00e8s sp\u00e9cifique parce que ces \u00e9motions refl\u00e8tent le moi, pas l&rsquo;objet des \u00e9motions. Parce que ces sentiments sont autor\u00e9f\u00e9rentiels, plus la m\u00e8re est impliqu\u00e9e ou\u00a0<strong>narcissique<\/strong>, plus il est probable qu&rsquo;elle sera jalouse ou envieuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>R\u00e9f\u00e9rences<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologue.net\/articles\/les-relations-toxiques-des-meres-jalouses-et-de-leurs-filles\">https:\/\/www.psychologue.net\/articles\/les-relations-toxiques-des-meres-jalouses-et-de<strong>-leurs-filles<\/strong><\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.fr\/,je-suis-jalouse-de-ma-fille,718992.asp\">https:\/\/www.marieclaire.fr\/,je-suis-jalouse-de-ma-fille,718992.asp<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.allocine.fr\/film\/fichefilm_gen_cfilm=144712.html\">https:\/\/www.allocine.fr\/film\/fichefilm_gen_cfilm=144712.html<\/a><\/li><\/ol>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Notre malaise culturel face \u00e0 la\u00a0jalousie d\u2019une m\u00e8re\u00a0pourrait bien \u00eatre<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":122,"featured_media":5778,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[402],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-famille"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/monpsychomag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/jalousiemC3A8refillempm1766617224431972863.-e1636639063457.jpg?fit=800%2C450&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/122"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5776"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5776\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5783,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5776\/revisions\/5783"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5778"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}