{"id":4977,"date":"2021-09-21T17:13:49","date_gmt":"2021-09-21T17:13:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/?p=4977"},"modified":"2021-09-21T18:27:46","modified_gmt":"2021-09-21T18:27:46","slug":"comment-aider-un-enfant-qui-a-peur-de-la-rentree-scolaire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2021\/09\/21\/comment-aider-un-enfant-qui-a-peur-de-la-rentree-scolaire\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment aider un enfant qui a peur de la rentr\u00e9e scolaire ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">L\u2019<a href=\"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2020\/08\/14\/lanxiete-explique-par-le-psychologue-pari\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"372\"><strong>anxi\u00e9t\u00e9<\/strong><\/a> d\u2019un enfant avant la <a href=\"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2021\/09\/21\/comment-aider-un-enfant-qui-a-peur-de-la-rentree-scolaire\/\"><strong>rentr\u00e9e en maternelle<\/strong><\/a> ou au CP refl\u00e8te le plus souvent celle de ses parents, selon les recherches scientifiques en <a href=\"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2020\/10\/20\/comment-sinscrire-au-departement-de-psychologie-appliquee-au-togo-en-2020\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"946\"><strong>psychologie<\/strong><\/a>. En prendre conscience permet de la mettre \u00e0 distance et de le rassurer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">L\u2019entr\u00e9e \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole maternelle puis celle au CP sont deux \u00e9tapes importantes qui se traduisent parfois par des troubles anxieux avant la rentr\u00e9e : agitation, insomnies\u2026 Leur probl\u00e9matique est cependant diff\u00e9rente. Dans le premier cas, l\u2019enfant ignore tout de l\u2019\u00e9cole et redoute surtout la s\u00e9paration, d\u2019autant plus s\u2019il n\u2019a pas connu la cr\u00e8che.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Rassurez votre enfant<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Il aura donc besoin d\u2019\u00eatre rassur\u00e9 sur la solidit\u00e9 du lien parent-enfant et sur son aptitude \u00e0 s\u2019adapter, seul, \u00e0 un univers inconnu. Comment ? En amont, par des <strong>s\u00e9parations progressives<\/strong>, <strong>un discours positif sur l\u2019\u00e9cole<\/strong> et <strong>des mises en situation valorisantes<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">\u00ab \u00c0 cet \u00e2ge, son anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 refl\u00e8te surtout celle des parents : \u201cMon enfant s\u2019int\u00e9grera-t-il ? Puis-je faire confiance au personnel \u00e9ducatif ?\u201d \u00bb. Voil\u00e0 ce qui se passe.<\/p><div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Accompagnez votre enfant \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9cole<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">L\u2019id\u00e9al serait, au moment de l\u2019inscription, de se rendre \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole avec lui pour rencontrer sa ma\u00eetresse et discuter avec elle des modalit\u00e9s de fonctionnement. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">\u00ab L\u2019entr\u00e9e en maternelle marque aussi un cap pour le parent. Son enfant grandit et lui \u00e9chappe, d\u2019o\u00f9 des sentiments ambivalents (fiert\u00e9, <a href=\"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2020\/08\/29\/comment-nettoyer-sa-pensee\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"400\">tristesse<\/a>). Si la r\u00e9action d\u00e9passe le pincement au c\u0153ur, il se peut que le parent revive des situations de s\u00e9parations douloureuses. <a href=\"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/monpsycho-jai-une-question\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"2451\"><strong>Consulter<\/strong><\/a> l\u2019aiderait alors \u00e0 y voir plus clair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Evitez des attitudes trop s\u00e9rieuses avec l&rsquo;enfant<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">\u00c0 l\u2019entr\u00e9e au CP, les apprentissages repr\u00e9sentent la principale source d\u2019anxi\u00e9t\u00e9. L\u2019enfant peut craindre de ne pas \u00eatre \u00e0 la hauteur, surtout si on lui r\u00e9p\u00e8te que les \u00ab choses s\u00e9rieuses \u00bb commencent avec la \u00ab grande \u00e9cole \u00bb. Certains parents, anciens bons \u00e9l\u00e8ves, se r\u00e9v\u00e8lent peut-\u00eatre trop exigeants. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">D\u2019autres, \u00e0 l\u2019inverse, appr\u00e9hendent la reproduction de leur \u00e9chec et transmettent leur inqui\u00e9tude. Dans tous les cas, il convient de mettre \u00e0 distance ses propres souvenirs, de s\u2019informer aupr\u00e8s des enseignants sur ce qu\u2019ils attendent de leur enfant, et de trouver un juste milieu entre une attitude rassurante et la valorisation de l\u2019autonomie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Psychologies<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>L\u2019anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 d\u2019un enfant avant la rentr\u00e9e en maternelle ou au<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":122,"featured_media":4979,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[607],"tags":[64,1031,207,1032,94],"class_list":["post-4977","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-education","tag-anxiete","tag-consulter","tag-psychologie","tag-rentree-en-maternelle","tag-tristesse"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/monpsychomag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/enfantal27C3A9cole2580295987453942458.-e1632247701169.jpg?fit=800%2C534&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4977","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/122"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4977"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4977\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4987,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4977\/revisions\/4987"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4979"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4977"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4977"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4977"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}