{"id":1004,"date":"2020-10-28T17:52:04","date_gmt":"2020-10-28T17:52:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/?p=1004"},"modified":"2020-10-28T18:35:56","modified_gmt":"2020-10-28T18:35:56","slug":"comment-identifier-un-individu-toxique-dans-votre-entourage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2020\/10\/28\/comment-identifier-un-individu-toxique-dans-votre-entourage\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment identifier un individu toxique dans votre entourage ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<p>C\u2019est une chose de dire ou de faire une mauvaise chose de temps en temps. Nous avons tous fait cela ! Mais c\u2019est bien plus que cela quand on a un ou plusieurs membres de sa son entourage <a href=\"https:\/\/monpsychomag.com\/index.php\/2020\/07\/22\/ma-relation-est-toxique-que-faire\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"328\">toxique<\/a>. Voici quelques \u00e9l\u00e9ments \u00e0 surveiller.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-green-cyan-color\"><strong>Si vous ne faites pas ce qu\u2019ils veulent que vous fassiez, ils se mettent en col\u00e8re<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span>et vous critiquent. Ils ne comprennent pas, et ne sont pas int\u00e9ress\u00e9s par vos raisons.<\/li><li><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-green-cyan-color\">Ils rapportent ce que vous faites aux autres membres de <\/span><\/strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-green-cyan-color\"><strong>votre entourage<\/strong><\/span>. \u00c0 cause d\u2019eux, tout le monde sait que vous avez bu un verre de trop lors d&rsquo;une soir\u00e9e.<\/li><li><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-green-cyan-color\">Personne ne mets mieux en application le terme \u00abpassif-agressif\u00bb<\/span><\/strong>. Ce sont les gens qui publient des choses sur Facebook ou Whatsapp comme : <strong>\u00ab\u00a0Certaines personnes ne devraient pas penser qu\u2019elles sont meilleures que tout le monde.\u00a0\u00bb <\/strong>Ils ne sont pas assez courageux pour vous parler directement. Ils montrent leur jalousie sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux en esp\u00e9rant que vous lirez ce qu&rsquo;ils disent et que vous vous sentiez mal.<\/li><li><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-green-cyan-color\">Ils sont toujours plus malades que vous, plus tristes que vous et ils font plus de mal que vous<\/span>.<\/strong>\u00a0Plus besoin d\u2019expliquer celui-ci. S&rsquo;il y a des gens dans votre vie qui font cela, vous en \u00eates bien conscient.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Sources:<\/em><\/p><div class=\"db567aefa9b9073415b194386f2f1045\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer \u00e0 l'endroit ou vous voulez afficher les publicit\u00e9s -->\r\n<div id=\"afrikad-slot-1741-p-1\"\r\n     data-afrikad\r\n     data-slot-id=\"1741\" \r\n     data-dynamic-countries=\"tg\"\r\n     style=\"margin: auto; width: 300px; height: 275px;\"><\/div>\r\n\r\n<!-- Code \u00e0 placer de pr\u00e9ference une seule fois en bas de page -->\r\n<script>\r\n    (function (d) {\r\n        if (window.afrikadInit == null) {\r\n            window.afrikadInit = function (sdk) {\r\n                sdk.autoload();\r\n            };\r\n        }\r\n\r\n        var js, ajs = d.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];\r\n        if (d.getElementById('afrikad-sdk')) {\r\n            return;\r\n        }\r\n        js = d.createElement('script');\r\n        js.id = \"afrikad-sdk\";\r\n        js.src = \"https:\/\/www.afrikad.com\/build\/latest\/js\/sdk.js\";\r\n        ajs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, ajs);\r\n    }(document));\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p><em>Afifi, T. D., Olson, L. N., Armstrong, C. (2005). The chilling effect and family secrets: Examining the role of self-protection, other protection, and communication efficacy. Human Communication Research, 31, 564-598.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders (5th ed.). Arlington, VA: Author.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Barnett, O., Miller-Perrin, C., &amp; Perrin, R. (2011). Family violence across the life span. Sage: Thousand Oaks, CA.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Conti, R.P. (2015). Family estrangement: Establishing a prevalence rate. Journal of Psychology &amp; Behavioral Science, 3, 28-35.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Leedom. L. J. (2017). The Impact of Psychopathy on the Family, Psychopathy &#8211; New Updates on an Old Phenomenon, Federico Durbano, IntechOpen, DOI: 10.5772\/intechopen.70227. Available from: https:\/\/www.intechopen.com\/books\/psychopathy-new-updates-on-an-old-phenomenon\/the-impact-of-psychopathy-on-the-family<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Psychologue.net 2020<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Photo de&nbsp;Erik Mclean de&nbsp;Pexels<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Roth, K, Friedman, F. (2003). Surviving a borderline parent: How to heal your childhood wounds &amp; build trust, boundaries, and self-esteem. CA: New Harbinger.<\/em><\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C\u2019est une chose de dire ou de faire une mauvaise chose de temps en temps. Nous avons tous fait cela ! 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